You are here

Thought of the Moment

Parenting

It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it myself.

- Joyce Maynard Read more

 

Meaning

Life is not primarily a quest for pleasure, as Freud believed, or a quest for power, as Alfred Adler taught, but a quest for meaning.

The greatest task for any person is to find meaning in his or her life. Frankl saw three possible sources for meaning: in work (doing something significant), in love (caring for another person), and in courage during difficult times. Read more

 

Perception

People see what you feel about yourself. Read more

 

Love for Humanity

"Remember, a tiny grin of like-minded people around the globe gathered and working together with love for humanity will be like dust gathered together to become a mountain."

- Don Gibson Read more

 

Being Proactive

The ability to subordinate an impulse to a value is the essence of the proactive person. Reactive people are driven by feelings, by circumstances, by conditions, by their environment. Proactive people are driven by values—carefully thought about, selected and internalized values. Read more

 

Children and Parents

Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them.

- Oscar Wilde Read more

 

Art

Art is the ability to convey that we are not alone.

- M. Night Shyamalan Read more

 

Forgiveness is a Choice

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up against the offender. Forgiveness is an expression of love.

- The 5 Love Languages Read more

 

How Much To Practice

Deep practice, however, doesn't obey the same math. Spending more time is effective—but only if you're still in the sweet spot at the edge of your capabilities, attentively building and honing circuits. What's more, there seems to be a universal limit for how much deep practice human beings can do in a day. Ericsson's research shows that most world-class experts—including pianists, chess players, novelists, and athletes—practice between three and five hours a day, no matter what skill they pursue. Read more

 

Reaching, Not Thrashing

The trick is to choose a goal just beyond your present abilities; to target the struggle. Thrashing blindly doesn't help. Reaching does.

- The Talent Code Read more

 

Pages